When Too Much is Going On

How do you stop and relax?

Aimée Sparrow
3 min readJul 6, 2022
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The stressors of everyday life threaten to overwhelm us. We feel pain in our bodies from anxiety and cannot function. We can wake up one morning as if with a hangover without a single drink in our system. The way people cope with pressure is different from person to person, and here is what I do to organize and manage my time.

  • Make lists just the right length with the exact amount of granularity needed. Then, go through said lists in a prompt and disciplined manner, consistently over time.
  • Decatastrophize large overwhelming tasks by splitting them up just so they seem easily attainable goals, and satisfying each time we finish a part.
  • Spread out time over things you should do, things you desire, and things you believe are both productive and enjoyable.
  • Maintain a cool and calm demeanor despite pressure, stress, and overwhelm, taking life in stride and working slowly but surely through your goals.
  • Avoid obsession or frequent distractions, and commend yourself for doing something right, promptly, or well.
  • Exercise self-care routines and do not forget to attend to your own needs quickly so that you may remain less frustrated and neurotic throughout the day.
  • Be kind to yourself if…

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Aimée Sparrow

An explorer of the philosophy behind psychology and what we dream to inspire peace and solace from suffering. aimee.sparrowling@gmail.com